{Marriage} is a Creation of God to join a man and a woman, who has no living husband, as one for the rest of their lives. And it is God who set the rules for marriage. To go through a marriage ceremony or to marry someone that God says you can't marry does not make you one-flesh in the eyes of God even if man and his laws say you are. Here are two examples of marriages God does not accept. Matthew.5: 32 says: Whoever shall marry a divorced woman commits adultery. And Mark.5: 17 says: for Herod had married Herodias. Just because you marry someone, that does not make them your spouse. God says a man can Not marry a man, can Not marry his mother, and he can Not marry an other man's wife.
{One Flesh} is something God does- that lasts a lifetime- in making a man and a woman one flesh as husband and wife. For one to lie with another (a human act) does not make two people "one flesh" (a work of God). For a man to lie with his wife is honorable and godly, and for a man to lay with someone not his wife is sin; but neither human act makes them one-flesh. An ungodly act of fornication or adultery does not make anyone married, and such an act of sin cannot make anyone "one-flesh" either. Lying with anyone is not what makes one married. A harlot is a harlot because of what she does, not because she is married or not married. Only God is able to make two people "one-flesh". And god will not do so against his laws.
{Adultery} is to lay with a married person of the opposite sex, who is not your spouse, or to divorce and marry another. Mk.10:11-12 THIS IS THE SAME AS HAVING SOMEONE WHO IS NOT YOUR SPOUSE
{Fornication} is sex before marriage when the word fornication is listed before and with adultery in the same sentence. Also fornication is all sexual sin (including adultery and incest) also any sexual perversion (sex with an animal, man with man, child with parent, sex outside of marriage...) when the word is used alone or after adultery. Strong's N. T. #4202
{Hardness Of Heart} is destitution of spiritual perception Strong's N.T. # 4541 (ignorance by choice) stupidity or callousness: blindness Strong's N. T.# 4457.
{Let Not \ Let None} puts the responsibility not only on the married couple but on others also, What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder (divorce) Matthew 19:6, Mark 10:9, let none deal treacherously (divorce) against his wife Malachi 2: 14-16, Let not the wife depart from her husband … let not the husband put away his wife.. 1Corinthians 7:10, 11.
How does a person “let not / let none” (NOT ALLOW) man to put apart? HOW Can we stop Allowing or let not people to Divorce and Remarry? 1 By being informed that Marriage really is until death. 2 By speaking the truth in love because we care about them and do not want them to end up in hell. 3 By not calling people “Husband and Wife” who are in adultery. and not calling them “Mr. and Mrs. new-last-name” we can call them by their 1st names. 4 By holding people accountable to their word vowed in their first marriage and to God's word saying marriage is until death. Making a new vow can not remove or undo an older allowable vow. Keep your vow.
If God commands, "Do not close the door", and you find the door closed, what then? You say I didn't close it so it's not my responsibly to see that it gets opened. But if God says, "Let not the door be closed", that implies you and everyone that knows of the command, not only to not close the door, but also to open it if it is closed. We need to be active watchmen. Not allowing men to think they can take apart what God says we are to not allow. IF we ALLOW divorce and remarriage by saying nothing we also become guilty of the sin of this remarriage.
Please read Ezekiel 3: 17-21: When a righteous man turns from his righteousness, and commits iniquity, and I lay stumbling block before him, he shall die: because you did not give him warning, he shall die in his sin, and his righteousness which he has done shall not be remembered; but his blood will I require at your hand.
And from the 33rd chapter of Ezekiel we read: If the wicked restore what he had robbed and walk In the statutes of life he shall surely live. Say unto them, As I live, says the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: We are our brother's keeper, and are instructed to be Praying always in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints Ephesians 6: 18.
{Mercy} is the grace of God freely given to all who turn from wickedness, ask for forgiveness, and live righteously. Isa.27: 11 says: ...for It is a people of no understanding: therefore he that made them will not have mercy on them. And Isaiah 55:6-8: Seek the Lord while he may be found, call upon him while he is near: Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways says the Lord. (Please see Mercy website which list a bunch of verces on mercy.http://mercypleasetw.weebly.com/ )
Sow to yourselves in righteousness, reap in mercy Hosah 10:12. By faith Able offered unto God a more excellent sacrifice than Cain (to obey God he had to kill a lamb) Hebrews ll:4.
Eli did not do the right thing in 1Samuel 2:12-4:18 only speaking to his sons Hophni and Phinehas about their evil acts of eating the fat of the sacrifices and having sex with the women that assembled at the door of the tabernacle, Eli did not stop them but allowing them to continue being priest and continue with their evil acts. God said. ?Wherefore kick ye at my sacrifice and at my offering, which I have commanded in my habitation; and honor your sons above me.?